45 minutes. $75. No bullshit.
Divorce has a way of dismantling the life you spent years building.
The marriage ends. Your routines disappear. Friendships change. Your finances get rearranged. Dating becomes a different animal. And somewhere between the custody calendar and your first awkward date, you realize you’re not just rebuilding a household.
You’re rebuilding an entire life.
I’ve spent the past couple of years navigating that process myself, documenting the good decisions, bad decisions, expensive mistakes, and occasional acts of stupidity through The Deadbeat Zaddy Files.
The cheating. The divorce. The dating experiments. The fatherhood adjustments. The financial decisions. The ongoing attempt to build a life that actually works.
I’m not a divorce coach, therapist, or relationship expert.
I’m a guy who lived through it.
I’ve made decisions I regret, learned things I wish I’d understood earlier, and written about experiences most people would rather keep buried.
I’m still figuring some of it out.
But there’s value in talking to someone who’s actually been through the situation you’re facing, particularly someone willing to discuss his own mistakes without pretending they were all part of some brilliant master plan.
That’s why I’m opening up private 1:1 sessions.
What We Can Talk About
Life After Divorce
Rebuilding independence, routines, friendships, and a social life after the marriage ends. Figuring out how to structure your time when your old life no longer exists.
Dating and Relationships
Getting back into dating, meeting women, approaching, using dating apps, understanding relationship dynamics, and avoiding some of the mistakes that come with being newly single.
Divorced Fatherhood
Shared custody, co-parenting logistics, adjusting to life between households, and figuring out how to be an involved father without abandoning the rest of your identity.
Money, Fitness, and Lifestyle
Reorganizing finances, rebuilding habits, improving your physical condition, and establishing a lifestyle that gives you more independence and optionality.
Figuring Out What Comes Next
Maybe you’re not dealing with one specific problem. Maybe your marriage ended and you’re staring at a blank calendar wondering what the hell you’re supposed to do with yourself.
We can talk about that, too.
What You’re Actually Paying For
You’re not paying for professional credentials, a proprietary coaching system, or some guy on the internet pretending he’s solved masculinity.
You’re paying to talk to a real person who’s been through some of the same shit.
Someone who’s navigated divorce, rebuilt his social life, gotten back into dating, adjusted to divorced fatherhood, and made plenty of questionable decisions along the way.
And unlike most people offering advice, I’ve documented a remarkable amount of the evidence against myself.
You’ve read the articles. You know the stories. Now you can ask me about the details, discuss your own situation, and get my perspective without the polished bullshit of a professional coaching pitch.
Bring your questions, your problems, or the decision you’ve been going back and forth on. We’ll talk through what’s happening, challenge assumptions where necessary, and explore practical options.
I’ll tell you what I think, even when I suspect it’s not what you want to hear.
I won’t pretend to have all the answers. I can tell you what I’ve experienced, what I’ve learned, what I’d do differently, and where I might still be figuring things out.
Sometimes that’s more useful than another framework from someone who’s never had to live with the consequences.
No guru. No credentials theater. Just firsthand experience and an actual conversation.
What to Expect
A private, 45-minute conversation focused on whatever you’re dealing with.
You don’t need a polished explanation of your situation or a list of perfectly organized questions. But coming prepared with a few things you’d like to discuss will help us make the most of the time.
We’ll talk through your circumstances, examine your options, and identify practical next steps where possible.
There’s no curriculum to follow, no upsell waiting at the end, and no promise that one conversation will magically fix your life.
You can keep your camera off if you’d prefer. I understand that divorce, dating, infidelity, and family matters aren’t necessarily things you want to discuss with your face on a screen.
This isn’t therapy, legal representation, or professional financial advice.
It’s a conversation with someone who’s been through the wreckage and is willing to compare notes.
Book a Session
45 minutes — $75
Private, one-on-one video call. Camera optional.
No bootcamp. No motivational sermon. No twelve-step system to becoming an alpha male.
Just two guys talking through the situation.
One of them happens to have documented a remarkable number of ways to fuck things up.
These sessions provide peer perspective and practical discussion based on personal experience. They are not a substitute for licensed mental health care or professional legal, financial, or medical advice.