About Deadbeat Zaddy Files
This is not your dad’s divorce blog.
This is Deadbeat Zaddy — a post-separation war journal for the man rebuilding not from rock bottom — but from a lie.
If you’ve ever looked around at your polite, exhausted peers and thought,
"There’s no way this is all manhood has to offer",
you’re in the right place.
What This Is
The Deadbeat Zaddy Files is a rogue playbook.
Not just on how to survive divorce, fatherhood, or modern dating —
but how to turn them into leverage.
Trusted by 115+ men rebuilding from the ashes — fathers, tech workers, nightlife veterans, and sovereigns in the making.
Recommended by creators like
, , , and others inside the masculine self-rebuild space.You’ll find:
🔥 Field Reports – real-world game, nightlife, and interactions
📜 Zaddy Codices – tactical deep-dives on masculinity, power, and strategy
🧾 Tales from the W2 – reflections from inside the corporate machine
📦 Dispatches – lifestyle design for men rebuilding with style, strength, and solitude
👨👧 Dad Logs – fatherhood, legacy, and raising your daughter like a man
This is where men go when they stop apologizing and start architecting.
Who I Am
I’m a senior software engineer, father, and recovering nice guy.
For a decade I played the game by the book — marriage, career, stability.
But in the background, I was reading everything they don’t want men to understand —
power, game, seduction, human nature, masculine polarity.
Trying to reconcile that with monogamy.
Trying to stay sharp in a life that wanted me soft.
Eventually, I got kicked out.
By my wife.
After she uncovered the life I’d been building in the shadows.
What she didn’t realize was… that was the best thing that could’ve happened.
Now I build.
Not just muscle, businesses, and crypto portfolios —
but identity, frame, and legacy.
This newsletter is my blueprint in real time.
You’re watching the rebuild.
Who This Is For
This is for the man who:
Walked away from a woman, a job, or a version of himself that wasn’t true
Knows there’s more than corporate success and domestic obedience
Wants money, women, fitness, and fatherhood — on his terms
Is done being polite and ready to be powerful
Thinks most “self-improvement” content is either too soft or too fake
Paid Tier (Coming Soon)
Later, you’ll get access to:
Codex drops (e.g., Bonecrker Codex, The Desi Playboy Manual, The Heartiste Maxims)
Private field reports I can’t post publicly
Systems for wealth, energy, dating, and fatherhood
And maybe, just maybe… a private community of sovereigns
But for now?
Just read.
Reflect.
And remember who the fuck you are.
📸 What Readers Are Saying
“I nominate this very post below to be the first thing you read on the sidebar. It is f***ing painful how true this is.”
, commenting on Deadbeat Zaddy Notes
—“You accurately lay out and detail female manipulation tactics in a way that is relatable and actionable.” —
, commenting on The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak Power“Thanks for this, bud. I just got a new gym membership… I don’t want to go there and look like an idiot. This guide helps a lot!”
— VNM0601, Reddit comment on The Zaddy Split: A Mid-Divorce PPL Routine“Wow. Halfway through and I must say — besides it being spot-on, you have a very cutting way with words. Are you a writer?”
— ---Right--Tackle---, Reddit comment on Millennial Dad is a Trap“I wish I had a man as honest as you. I love reading these. Even if they're not meant for a younger woman. It's nice to see into the eyes of an older mature man.”
commenting on Blonde Silence, Aussie Noise, and Ping Pong Initiation
—“This is awesome. I’ll be following your journey.”
— apatheticBird, Reddit comment on The Zaddy Split: A Mid-Divorce PPL Routine“You sound on fire 🔥 The cons are real, but I think you have the passion to overcome.”
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